The Parent Pivot: What to Do When Your Young Adult Is in Psychological Distress

For parents who feel overwhelmed, worried, or unsure how to help a young adult in psychological distress, this book offers compassionate, practical guidance.Emerging adulthood (ages 18–29) is a vulnerable period often marked by anxiety, depression, substance misuse, internet misuse, and risky behaviors. As children enter adulthood, the parenting role must shift. Instead of being a full-time “caretaker,” parents must learn to “pivot” into roles such as “coach,” “wise counsel,” or “compeer”―and sometimes return to the “caretaker” role when distress intensifies.The Parent Pivot provides clear guidance, support, and realistic hope for navigating this stage. Written by psychologists with decades of experience supporting emerging adults and their families, the book offers tools and language parents can begin using right away. Even when young adults resist help, readers will find strategies for staying connected without overstepping or disengaging.You’ll learn how to:• Distinguish between “normal” developmental stress and more serious mental health issues• Communicate effectively, even during shutdown, conflict, or withdrawal• Encourage professional help while respecting autonomy• Determine when and how to seek treatment• Set healthy boundaries and protect family well-being• Manage your own stress, fear, and emotional exhaustionDrawing on clinical research and real-world experience, The Parent Pivot addresses the complex emotional dynamics between parents and their young adults. It guides parents in practicing self-care, mourning lost expectations, and cultivating compassion―for themselves and their adult children. Read more